Welcome to ONWARDS: the blog.

So, to recap.

Here’s what you missed on the Sayulita Shit Show:

• The sea is full of sewage.

• Everyone is getting sick.

• Tourism is a parasite.

And I’m grateful.

All that negativity and she says she’s grateful? Of course. As these things often go, this challenging situation presented me with a choice. A choice which, in the end, reminded me of two very important things.

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TWO WEEKS AGO…

Halfway into a one month stint in one of Mexico’s long-loved Pacific surf towns. 

I arrived with a pep in my step. Psyched to be out on the water every single day. Escaping winter. Being productive — imagine. Eager to once again be spending a chunk of time in one spot, sharing new insights into a new place.

Half the month gone, and my insight is this: stop coming to Sayulita.

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You: Is she finally going for clickbait?

Me: No. Unintentionally, if so. I do accept the fact that I may grind some gears though.

For those who are confused, Uncle Tommy’s Tavern is an Irish pub in my hometown which myself and many of my friends have frequented at one point or another. 

The Guinness is fresh, the bar food is good, and the crowd is friendly (99% of the time). It’s even rated 4.7/5 on Google.

And I’m a little afraid to ever go back.

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It finally happened. After a little whining and a lot of spiritual reckoning, I made a TikTok. 

Not because I wanted to. Because I got tired of being told I was stupid not to give it a go for marketing purposes. 

I was not looking forward to this. So, I attempted to frame it in a way that would excite me: a social experiment.

This was a month ago. The experiment is over and done with. Here is what I learned.

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The other day, I walked for 5 hours under the scorching Barbados sun for a famous fish sandwich. 

Could I have taken the bus? Sure.

But that would be too easy. And 2024 is for the plot.

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Nowhere is waiting more irritating than in line. 

Not only are you mentally in wait for something, but physically, too. You can literally see your goal. The destination is right there. 

So what do we do when we know we must have something requiring a queue?

1. Escape the wait and forget what you want, eliminating irritation but also the joy of your reward.

2. Endure the wait, all the while staring at the front of the line, tapping your foot, looking around — torture.

3. Or, enjoy the wait. As much as you can. Accept the present as is. 

Number 3 is what several thousand of us did last weekend, in the cold and rain, for anywhere from 2-12 hours… to get into a club.

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I went on a date with a Dutch guy the other week. 

Before you ask: I’m on a mission to find someone who will change my mind about Dutch guys. (More on this at another time.)

But he was cool. Smart. A director. When he asked about my acting and I told him that I was too interested in too many other things to give it 100% at the moment, he replied:

“You’re a multipotentialite.”

I did not think this was a word. But it is. New favorite self-descriptor unlocked.

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It’s the weirdest week of the year.

The holiday season is over. The new year not yet begun. Much deserved time off work for many… who spend it sitting on their couches, bored. One thing’s for sure: nobody else is writing their blogs or newsletters this week. Except me.

Do I deserve an award for muddling through The In-Between Days? No. But I will take the opportunity to love myself anyhow.

I hope this inspires you to do the same.

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